I don't even know how to be a normal friend anymore. I always do whatever I can to not accept any favors, except those which I absolutely need and know I can repay, even within my own family. This is what happens when you assume that I am taking advantage of people, and drill such a mantra into my head for years.
People are silly and stupid. Part of learning gratitude and humility is accepting and thanks from others. Sure, self-efficiency is nice, but we should be leaning to help others. It's harmony and balance. Those who pushed you to refuse needed assistance were as selfish as those who ssought to use you.
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